Uncontested Divorce

What You Need to Know

Joint divorce and simple divorce are two types of divorce that individuals can choose from when ending their marriage. A joint divorce, also known as an uncontested divorce, is when both parties agree on all aspects of the divorce, including child custody, division of assets, and spousal support. A simple divorce, on the other hand, is when one party files for divorce and the other party does not contest it.

There are several benefits to choosing a joint divorce over a simple divorce. One of the main benefits is that it can save time and money. Since both parties agree on all aspects of the divorce, there is no need for a lengthy court battle. Additionally, since there is no need for a trial, legal fees are typically lower. Another benefit of a joint divorce is that it can help reduce the emotional stress of the divorce process. Since both parties are working together to come to an agreement, there is less animosity and tension between them.

Joint Divorce Vs Simple Divorce

When it comes to divorce, couples have two options: Joint Divorce or Simple Divorce. The main difference between the two is the level of cooperation between the parties involved.

In a Joint Divorce, both parties work together to come up with an agreement that satisfies both parties. This agreement is then presented to the court for approval. The process is typically faster and less expensive than a Simple Divorce, as there is no need for a trial.

On the other hand, in a Simple Divorce, one party files for divorce and serves the other party with the necessary paperwork. The other party can then either agree to the terms or contest them in court. This process can be more time-consuming and expensive, as it may require a trial to settle any disagreements.

One advantage of a Joint Divorce is that it allows both parties to have a say in the final outcome. This can lead to a more amicable divorce and a better co-parenting relationship if children are involved.

However, a Simple Divorce may be necessary if one party is unwilling to cooperate or if there are significant disagreements that cannot be resolved through negotiation.

Ultimately, the decision between a Joint Divorce and a Simple Divorce will depend on the specific circumstances of each case. It is important for couples to consider their options and seek legal advice before making a decision.

In conclusion, whether you’re facing the complexities of a joint divorce or the straightforward path of a simple divorce, GTA Divorce is committed to supporting you every step of the way. Our experienced team understands the emotional and legal challenges that come with ending a marriage and is dedicated to providing compassionate, professional guidance. Trust GTA Divorce to help you navigate this difficult time with confidence and clarity, ensuring a smoother transition to the next chapter of your life. Book a free consultation today.

A Quick Heads-Up Before We Begin…

Divorce is messy. Even when it’s “simple,” it’s still emotionally tangled, financially draining, and full of moments where you just want to scream into a pillow. If you’re in Ontario and thinking about ending your marriage—or maybe you’re already knee-deep in the process—you’ve probably heard the terms uncontested and contested tossed around like legal buzzwords. And sure, they sound straightforward enough, but when it comes down to your life, your finances, and your kids? The difference between them matters. Big time.

So, let’s talk about it—not just from a technical perspective, but in a real, human way. The kind of way that actually helps.

What Do “Contested” and “Uncontested” Mean, Anyway?

Let’s start with the basic breakdown, no fluff.

• Uncontested Divorce: You and your spouse agree on everything—property division, child custody, support, the works. There’s no fight over the terms, so the process tends to be faster, cheaper, and a lot less stressful.
• Contested Divorce: You and your spouse disagree on something—even one issue can turn things contested. Maybe it’s who gets the house. Or how much time the kids spend with each parent. Or maybe it’s everything. When there’s conflict, the court gets involved, and the process slows way down.

But here’s the catch: sometimes what starts as contested can become uncontested… and vice versa. Divorce isn’t static. It evolves—sometimes for the better, sometimes for the chaotic.

So, Why Does This Matter?

Because time, money, and peace of mind are all on the line.

Let’s be honest: nobody wants to drag their personal life into a courtroom if they can avoid it. But depending on your situation, you might not have a choice. And understanding which path you’re on—or might be headed toward—helps you make better decisions from the get-go.

Let’s Get a Little Personal: When Uncontested Divorce Actually Works

If both parties are mature, communicative, and ready to move on without playing games, an uncontested divorce can feel like a breath of fresh air.

It’s usually:

• Faster: Some are finalized in just a few months.
• Cheaper: No trial means no extensive legal fees.
• Private: No courtroom drama = less public exposure.
• Simpler: Fewer documents, less back-and-forth.

People often ask, “But do we still need a lawyer if we agree on everything?”

Here’s the thing: yes, you should still get legal advice—even in the most amicable cases. Why? Because clarity prevents conflict down the line. An uncontested divorce doesn’t mean uninformed.

At GTA Divorce, for example, we offer flat-rate uncontested divorce packages that take the guesswork—and surprise bills—out of the equation. And if you’re not quite sure where you stand, a free consultation can help you figure it out without pressure.

When Things Get Messy: Contested Divorce Real Talk

Not all breakups are friendly. Sometimes, things are complicated, raw, and downright hostile. And in those cases? A contested divorce might be unavoidable.

Here’s what to expect:

• Court Involvement: A judge will have to decide on the issues you and your spouse can’t agree on.
• More Legal Fees: You’re paying for time, prep, appearances, and possibly experts or mediation.
• More Time: Contested divorces can take a year… or more.
• Emotional Drain: It’s not just money—it’s mental energy, especially when kids are involved.

You know what hurts most? When a contested divorce spirals from something small. Like one person digging in their heels about spousal support, or hiding financial assets. That’s why early legal guidance matters. It can save you from a months-long emotional (and financial) sinkhole.

Let’s Pause for a Second—What About the Kids?

This deserves its own section, because if you’ve got children, your divorce isn’t just about the two of you anymore.

In both contested and uncontested divorces, child custody and support are big topics. But here’s the nuance:

• In an uncontested divorce, both parents usually come to a mutual agreement through a parenting plan. Courts are still involved (they review everything to ensure it’s fair and in the child’s best interest), but the heavy lifting happens privately.
• In a contested divorce, custody battles can get ugly fast. Judges make decisions based on the best interests of the child, but when parents can’t agree, those interests get interpreted through affidavits, testimonies, and sometimes even child psychologists.

And that? That’s tough on everyone.

Want to avoid dragging your kid through a courtroom showdown? Talk to us. Even in high-conflict situations, there’s room for negotiation. There’s room to do better.

Cost Comparison: Let’s Talk Dollars

You know what nobody wants to ask but everyone needs to know? How much is this going to cost me?

Here’s a ballpark based on Ontario averages:

Type	Legal Fees	Court Fees	Timeframe
Uncontested Divorce	$1,000–$2,500	~$632	3–6 months
Contested Divorce	$7,500–$25,000+	Varies	12+ months

Keep in mind, these are averages. Some contested divorces can run up to $50,000+ if they go all the way to trial. It’s not just about the money either—it’s the emotional toll of dragging things out.

That’s why our pricing page lays it all out clearly, so you’re never blindsided.

Can You Switch Mid-Way? Yes—And It Happens More Than You Think

Here’s something people don’t realize: just because a divorce starts contested doesn’t mean it has to end that way.

Sometimes, after a few heated exchanges and escalating legal fees, reality sets in. People calm down. Priorities shift. And suddenly, there’s room for compromise.

Same goes the other way—what starts off as a clean break can take a sharp left turn if one side backpedals on an agreement or hides income.

So don’t think of your divorce as a fixed status. Think of it as a process. One that can bend, flex, or even flip completely depending on what’s happening in your life.

The Paperwork (Because Yes, There’s Always Paperwork)

Here’s the not-so-fun truth: divorce is as much about forms as it is about feelings.

• For uncontested divorces, you’ll need to file a joint application or a simple application with proof of separation, agreements, and affidavits.
• Contested divorces involve a flurry of documents: applications, answers, financial disclosures, motions, and possibly court orders.

Even one mistake in a form can delay your process. That’s why many Ontarians choose flat-fee legal services to make sure everything’s airtight the first time.

One Last Thing: What Feels “Easier” Might Not Always Be “Better”

Let me be real for a second: uncontested sounds lovely on paper, but it’s not for everyone. If you’re giving up too much just to keep the peace, that’s not peace—that’s self-sacrifice. And that’s not sustainable.

On the flip side, contesting everything just to win a battle? That gets expensive fast. Not just financially—but emotionally, spiritually, even physically.

So what’s the right path?

Honestly? The one that gives you closure without collateral damage. The one that protects your peace without sacrificing fairness.

And if you’re not sure what that looks like yet? That’s okay. You don’t need all the answers today. You just need a safe place to ask questions.

Final Thoughts—And a Gentle Reminder

Divorce isn’t one-size-fits-all. Whether you’re walking into it with a handshake or a subpoena, you deserve to understand your options. And more importantly—you deserve to be treated like a human being, not just a file number.

So whether your divorce is contested, uncontested, or somewhere in the unpredictable grey area in between, know this:

You’re not alone. And this doesn’t have to be a disaster.

You’ve got choices. Let’s figure out the right one together.

Helpful Links for Ontario Residents:

• GTA Divorce – Free Consultation
• GTA Divorce – Pricing
• GTA Divorce – Contact
• Ontario Court Forms
• Legal Aid Ontario
• Ministry of the Attorney General – Family Law
• CLEO – Divorce and Separation Resources

Disclaimer: Content on this website should not be construed as legal advice. If you need legal advice, you must speak with a lawyer.